Okay coming back to this blog for a minute because I’m really kind of pissed at this girl and she follows my other blog.
Alright, so my friend messaged me and 3 other girls about renting a house for the summer for beach week. This was about 2 days ago. She was acting so excited and so happy and was talking about how we need to decide on a house soon and what beach to go on and we had a whole conversation where me, her, and one of the other girls started planning things out.
Then, yesterday, her brother asked her to join his beach week group. Now apparently she’s going with him. Now it wouldn’t be a big deal, except for as long as I’ve known her she hasn’t liked her brother much. She’s also claimed to not like his friends. Ranting about them (and him) to me on occasion. And now she’s SO excited about spending beach week with them. People she’s always claimed to not like.
I’ve been been having problems with her for a few months now anyways. She went from being genuine and an awesome friend, to pretty fake. I know for a fact she’s lied to me, which would annoy me normally because I hate being lied to. But what makes it worse that we’ve always promised each other that we’d be honest with each other. I’ve tried to hold up that promise, she unfortunately has not.
She doesn’t really seem to give a fuck anymore. Everything is always about her. I say something to her that isn’t praise, it’s automatically a personal attack. I try to explain to her why I’m upset with her, because she ASKED, and she gets mad and tells people I’m purposefully trying to hurt her and bring her down. Basically comparing me to my sister, something she knows is a HUGE fear of mine, turning into my sister. She gets mad at EVERYTHING that doesn’t go her way. She got mad at me for telling her to drive on the right side of the road because she was driving in the middle. I don’t get scared about much, but bad driving completely freaks me out. Because I’ve had bad experiences when driving with people where I actually feared for my life. Something else she knows about.
She just seems to be really inconsiderate, she doesn’t pay attention to what anyone else is saying, and is constantly fishing for compliments. And when someone doesn’t compliment her about something she freaks out. She tells people she’s so mature and that she’s way more mature then most people her age, but her actions say the complete opposite. She always tries to make her life sound horrible, which is completely untrue. She get’s mad at me when I talk about turning 18 in a few months (which I don’t understand at all, I’m not sure why it pisses her off?)
I’m completely ranting right now. But I don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve tried to talk to her, but she takes everything I say and twists it to be something negative and then tells people I’m being mean to her on purpose. I’ve tried just ignoring it, but she’s bordering on being extremely rude. I’m also not the only friend of her’s who’s seen a negative change in her personality over the past few months.
I want to help her, if I can. I’m not ditching her as a friend. I don’t do that. I want to know how I can help her, or at least fix this so both of us can stop being wary of the friendship.
